Maybe it is a shame we can not pick our family members as we choose our friends. My youngest brother has been in a conflict for some time with my oldest sister. I can not choose side they are both my family and I love them both, but now they have drawn other family members into their rift and it continues to grow into a canyon that threatens to draw the rest of the family into it. My biggest fear is that siblings will turn on siblings over this mess and I am trying to stay in the middle so I am being hit by arrows from both sides. Maybe this is a good time to go to a deserted island and hide.